Instead of a Member of the Month competition, Gravity chooses to recognise the dedication that a member has put into the site by a custom title. Much like @The or @Kieran have their own titles beneath their avatar, the winner of this competition receives their own personalised equivalent. This is completely staff chosen and run, but occasionally we may let members have a vote based on a similar system. The competition isn’t run consistently, since it can only be achieved by exceptional dedication or fame in a particular aspect of the site. Thus, the competition changes every time, so there is no 'right' way to go about winning it. In fact, attempting to do so will probably limit your chances more. This competition is why members cannot choose their own custom titles, as that would then spoil the fun! Any questions you have can be left in this topic. Good luck!